Denying Self and Following Jesus

Mar 22, 2026    Matthew Spencer

This powerful message takes us on a journey through Matthew 16:21-28, where Jesus makes a startling declaration to His disciples: He must go to Jerusalem to suffer and die. What follows is perhaps one of the most challenging invitations in all of Scripture - the call to take up our cross and follow Him. We're confronted with the uncomfortable truth that following Jesus isn't about comfort, prosperity, or ease. It's about denying ourselves, bearing a cross, and walking a road that leads through death to resurrection. Peter's rebuke of Jesus reveals our own tendency to want a Savior without suffering, a crown without a cross. Yet Jesus responds with clarity: true discipleship requires us to die to ourselves daily. The message challenges us to examine what we're truly living for - the temporary rewards of this world or the eternal reward of heaven. Are we following a fairy tale God who grants our every wish, or are we surrendering to the lordship of Christ, even when His plan doesn't align with our comfort? This isn't just about Jesus dying on a cross two thousand years ago; it's about us picking up our cross today, tomorrow, and every day after. The road to resurrection always goes through crucifixion, but on the other side of our death to self is the abundant, purposeful life that only Christ can give.